Intimacy with God

By Joe Keim

March 1, 2025

In most cases, we don't like to develop a relationship with someone who doesn't seem to care for us or constantly thinks something is wrong with us. We do, however, gravitate toward those who like and respect us.

Similarly, if we feel that God merely tolerates us, we may find ourselves distancing from Him and questioning whether He really loves us.

How can one improve their relationship and feel genuine intimacy with God?

Since our mind is where the battles occur, we must find ways to fill our mind with the right stuff.

Prayer

Instead of asking God for more, start thanking Him for everything He has already given you. Honestly, this is a huge step that most people overlook. Thank Him for His patience, mercy, and daily provision in your life. Praise Him for saving your soul and giving you the ability to breathe, hear, walk, talk, go to work, and have family and friends who care for you.

Meditate on God's Word

Open your favorite book of the Bible and begin to read. Don't try to read the entire chapter; instead, read a few verses and meditate on them. If you can sit down with a second person and read/discuss the verses you read, do it. It's incredible how well that works in establishing your intimacy with God.

Community

We need more than social media to fill our relational needs. Facebook cannot replace touch, eyeball to eyeball, and hearing your friend's voice.

Service

When we are down and out, discouraged and grumpy, it is because we are thinking of ourselves—me, myself, and I. Try shifting your eyes and mind away from yourself and looking around. Help someone in need.

If you follow this advice, it will improve your day and the way you feel about God and others.

Have a blessed day!

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